All things Witty and Fashionable

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Screen shot 2014-08-11 at 6.10.49 PMI love being able to blog and I love reading fantastic blogs even more! These two ladies are phenomenal and I look forward to every new post. Courtney and Manja are both the perfect combination of fashion and humor which is reflected when they write. Keep reading to find out a little more about them and their remarkable blogs!

Courtney Stith and I have been friends since we were little; she’s more like a sister, than a friend and she will forever be my fashion consultant. Courtney is a senior at Howard University studying marketing and best believe she will be amongst the top fashion stylists one day! How could you not love Court? On top of being stylish, she’s absolutely adorable. I’m honored to call her one of my closest friends.Maybe I'm Bomb.com - for the girls falling in love with themselves www.maybeimbomb.com maybeimbomb.comWhat is the purpose of your blog? My blog is a lifestyle/fashion blog geared toward young women to help in the transitional period between being a girl and becoming a woman. I want to assist them in the discovery of all the things that make us uniquely beautiful.What are 3 words you would use to describe yourself ?Eclectic, unpredictable, intellectualWho is your icon and why? My Nana. She's the highest standard of a woman I've ever had. Strong, poised, resilient, and everything in between. What are 5 things you always have in your purse? My phone, Nude lipstick, cash, a notepad, and bobby pins.  
I had the pleasure of meeting Manja Nikolin last summer at our lovely second home, Nordstrom. She’s definitely a showstopper. Tall, brunette, Serbian bombshell! Besides her beauty, she has to be one of the realest and funniest people I know. Not to mention my personal editor…in life, always correcting my grammatical errors (usually when I don’t want her to, ha). I constantly look forward to our interactions because they are always extraordinary.Sinner In a Suit.com - All things personal, at times fitted, mostly wittywww.sinnerinasuit.com sinnerinasuit.comWhat is the purpose of your blog? It's a way for me to showcase my passion for creativity, photography and writing in one place. I just recently started to post my poetry. My photography is usually spur of the moment. Last week I had the urge to drive down to the beach at like 6AM. Luckily, my friend Ashley was more than willing to accompany me and we just started snapping away. It was my last post. My blog is a lot more fun to work on when it's not planned and it's even more fun when my friends are eager to take part. I find beauty in every moment and love to capture it. What are 3 words you would use to describe yourself? Goofy, clumsy, always hungry. Was that was 4? Oops. I'm on a roll. Friendly, spontaneous, sarcastic, motivating. 8!Who is your icon and why? Audrey Hepburn. A classic beauty, channeling elegance, grace and happiness in every moment. It's a great way to live life. What are 5 things you always have in your purse?Oh man let's see... Water, snacks (shocker), lip liner, a hairbrush... Hair spray. And I wonder why my friends call me a walking hair salon. Be sure to check out these fabulous blogs! Xoxo

Having plans sounds like a good idea...

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| Howard Homecoming Weekend |Howard Homecoming is a highly anticipated weekend, and being that this would be my last time attending, my expectations were at an all time high; not to mention my family and friends were coming to DC!To start the weekend off, it was essential that I attend the Empress Fashion Show. The annual Howard fashion show is a cultural event and this year it embodied four places: Paris, Tokyo, Sierra Leone and New York City. It was fascinating to see pieces of clothing that were designed by students.||||||The Yard—I have attended Yardfest at Howard University for the past three years, (freshman year was a struggle). I guess you can say it’s like a music festival featuring some of the hottest artists in the U.S. Over the past few years I’ve seen Drake, Wale, T.I, and others parading the Yardest stage. It’s always lively, but this year Howard decided to throw a curve ball. Due to the trampling and pushing (which I was apart of) that occurred last year at Yardfest, Howard decided to alter the iconic event. Yard ‘fest’ would be more like a festival this year instead of a concert. Nonetheless my friends and I wanted to attend, well tried.Doubled up on Denim All Black Everything (with touch of red) Love this fall look!   Who said you can't wear spring shoes in the fall? Friday night couldn’t come soon enough, and even though one of my family members would not be in attendance, I was still excited for the other two goons to arrive. In between the arrival, the laughs, &pizza, Rite Aid, Marvin’s Room, and the Uber, we had a good night!The Parade was another Howard homecoming event that I wanted to check off my bucket list. I missed the atmosphere, the drum line, the dancers etc. that you get to see when you are at a HBCU (Historically Black College/University). Even though it took an arm and a leg to get Melo and Aaron to get moving in the morning, we made it just in the nick of time and were still able to attend Catholic University’s tailgate/game.Wild West Wear Denim Blues            Do you know how deep my love is for Chris Brown? I had to see him; I just had to. I’ve never been in DC at the same time as him. So instead of taking my regular Saturday nap, I dragged Candace with me to Park. I literally had no problem doing anything just to meet him, including standing for 3 hours in brand new heels that were not broken in, but it was all worth just to get a glance at him. He is absolutely adorable and I’m even more in love than I was before.Melanie Lockett Folks! So we made it to the home stretch. Everyone was refreshed, kind of, and ready to have a good night. We had an addition to the crew as Melanie had just arrived. We made it out and we made it back. Our night was a total of 1 hour but that’s okay because through all of the unexpected situations, I can still say I had a good weekend. Thank you Homecoming Weekend for giving me something to celebrate!

Be Happy,Xoxo

"One should seek adoration, not attention"

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Every once and awhile I get a phone call from my Dad, and instantly I feel that bubble ball up in my throat; his timing is always perfect. In the midst of our how you been? And how is school? The one statement that stood out to me the most, is “He needs to be absolutely head over heels in love with you, if he’s not, than he’s not for you.”That statement has been in my head for 24 hours and it’s making my heart grieve, how much I wish some of the girls in my generation could hear that just once, from a man who truly cares about them.Although I reassured him that I understood, I couldn’t help but feel guilty when I hung up the phone. How many times have I waited for the adoration of a man, but settled for attention. You convince yourself that he must love you because he calls you daily, you’re the first person he text when he wakes up, you go on dates, he says he loves you, but that’s not enough, if you still feel lonely. Love isn’t unsure; love isn’t a routine. If he’s convincing you that he loves you because he texts you everyday, he sends you flowers after he does something wrong and swears he won’t do it again, then you really should step back and ask yourself, what am I searching for. What am I missing that I’ve settled for the attention of man? Know that you’re worth so much more, that attention is not enough, and if he can’t see that, okay then maybe it’s time to move on.Now hear me out ladies, don’t go bashing him and telling him how he’s a good for nothing because he doesn’t love you the way you need to be loved, we all get to the point where we feel comfortable and don’t realize that something’s wrong. Be strong enough to realize that in some situations it is just best to leave. And that doesn’t make you a female dog, that doesn’t make you heartless, it saves you both time and energy, because if he doesn’t love you the way you should be loved and you find yourself constantly questioning your relationship with him, then maybe it’s just not meant to be, and that’s okay. Rest assured in the fact that, there is someone out their designed specifically for you, I promise, and it won’t feel forced, you won’t feel unsure, the timing will be just right, trust that.Be Resilient, Xoxo